I know, I haven’t posted anything in several months, but this one was worth sharing.
Our student ministry is in the midst of a series called Life Interrupted: A Christmas Story. One of our student pastors shared a story last night during the service that my 16 yr old daughter had written about her recent experience. Being the proud dad that I am, I wanted to share it with you. Please indulge me.
It began on a Sunday morning before church. I was standing in front of my closet just staring at all the clothes. They were literally everywhere; on the floor, out of the drawers, on the hangers, when I thought to myself, “I’m pretty sure I have too many clothes. I won’t even wear all of these by Christmas time.” I let the thought just sink in and continued with my day.
Mom and I went to bible study that night when I finally said something to her. Francis Chan, who wrote Crazy Love, had inspired us. He had said what if we all lived in community with each other. What if we shared money and food? What if we shared clothes? What if? I followed on the idea. I got in the car and told my mom that I didn’t want any Christmas presents. I wanted to use the money for something else, for someone else’s Christmas. Jesus gave to me didn’t he? So why should I take away from people, it seems unfair.
It was then that our plan sort of made itself. My mom and I raved on and on about it in the car. We got home that night and told my dad. Almost immediately we all started talking about doing this and doing that and giving money to this person and their family.Finally our Christmas plans had been set. Starting on the 13th of December and ending on Christmas we vowed to do something of service everyday. Even Christmas day!
It did take a little getting used to… We told my brother the grand idea and he responded with “Yeahs and oh cools…” all in that monotone voice of a boy who wants an XBox for Christmas. Though it’s such an outrageous and unheard of idea it will probably be the most rewarding thing I’ll ever do. Already we have my cousins in on the idea, and as one big family we’re going Christmas caroling at an assisted living facility. We are excited to have adopted a family through LHC and are humbled to provide for a 19-year-old disabled boy and his caretaker. In addition we’re sending money to some of our favorite charities and a good friend in Seminary. I’m counting down the days!! Only 4 left!
Thank you God for making my family and I realize what giving means. Thank you God for humbling me. And most of all Thank You God for loving me and showing me what it means to love others.
To God be the glory, great things He has done.
One of the issues we wrestle with the most in Family Life ministry is extending our reach beyond the hour or two that children and students are in our ministries each week.
One of the creative solutions that our LHC Kids team has come up with to extend our reach is called Route 6:7 (based on Duet 6:7). We used to send the kids home with a weekly “talk sheet” with questions for parents to cover with their kids during the week. We noticed that these 1/2 page sheets ended up in their Bible, purse, floor board, or trash.
The newest member of our team, Sara, had the ingenious idea that we could condense the questions and print them on a card that could hang from the rear view mirror in the car where they would be visible throughout the week. They contain a weekly memory verse, as well as a question for each day of the week.
Here’s a pic:
The feedback has been incredible. Kids think they are the greatest thing ever and are begging parents to hang them up in the car immediately after church. And, parents are actually using them. Just today I stopped by the local grocery store and saw 3 cars in the parking lot with the most beautiful pieces of yellow paper dangling from the rear-view mirror. I can’t tell you how proud I was of our team in that moment.
“You shall teach them diligently to your children, and shall talk of them when you sit in your house, and when you walk by the way, and when you lie down, and when you rise.” Deuteronomy 6:7
What are you doing that is extending your reach?
today, my twelve year old son mowed the lawn for the first time in his life. i sat on the front porch sipping a Route 44 Vanilla Diet Coke from Sonic.
life is great and getting better with age.
are you aware of a church in the country that is “knocking it out of the park” in regards to wholistic family ministry? a real honest to goodness ministry that encompasses birth through high school and their parents? if so, please let me know.
we were sad to leave the rental house. it was fun. i see many more home rentals in our future.
day 9 highlights:
- we left the Scottsdale area and headed to the Grand Canyon. the drive is so unique. you start in desert, pass through prairie lands, and end up in the forest and mountains all in 90 miles.
- we arrived at the Grand Canyon around noon. i wasn’t sure what to expect. the view was amazing. absolutely breathtaking.
- we spent about 4 hours driving the east rim road to Desert View. again, all views were absolutely astounding.
- we headed back to flagstaff through the town of Cameron and were pleasantly surprised at the views of the Little Colorado Gorge and the Painted Desert. a much more picturesque drive.
- once back in Flagstaff we checked into the hotel before heading out to dinner at the local pizzeria – Roma’s Pizza.
we called it an early night. long drive tomorrow.
this was our last full day in Scottsdale. we are going to miss having a house with a pool and a pool table. the kids have felt like they are living the celebrity life style. who knew it just takes a swimming pool and a two story house to be a celebrity?
day 8 highlights:
- since it was our last day, the kids were in the swimming pool by 9a.
- i was driving everybody crazy with needing to pick up the house, pack our bags, etc., so Wendy “made” me go play golf by myself. i ventured out to The Boulders resort. i cannot believe how cheap the golf is here. $55 to play one of the nicest courses I have ever played. Next to Kapalua, this might be the nicest place I’ve ever been too. I see a guy trip back here in my future. we’ll just OD on golf.
- while i was playing golf, Wendy and the kids hung out by the pool, played Wii, and had ice cream for the 4th day in a row.
- for dinner we hit up the local Buffalo Wild Wings. those are some hot wings! baby were they hot.
- after dinner we headed over to CrackerJax for some putt-putt golf (total domination on my part), and some go kart racing (again total domination).
We are going to miss this place. tomorrow – Grand Canyon.
day 7 was the Sabbath. so, we did our best to not do much of anything.
day 7 highlights:
- as any good pastor would, we found a local church to attend. our choice was Phoenix First AOG. I had the opportunity to see Tommy Barnett speak at the C3 conference back in February so thought we would pay a visit. the service was great and started our day off right. we missed our LHC peeps though.
- after church we stopped at Chipotle for lunch. we eat here enough i should probably buy the stock.
- after returning to the house: i took a nap, caitlin read for a while, parker talked on the phone, and wendy lounged by the pool. eventually the rest of us joined in on the pool action and worked on our tans.
- in the early evening we kept with our tradition of ice cream for dinner on Sunday’s by heading the local Cold Stone Creamery.
- the night ended with a 3 hour Phase 10 competition. caitlin was the grand champ.
today we decided to venture out of the Scottsdale area and made the 90 minute tripup to Sedona before having dinner with some friends.
day 6 highlights:
- mid-morning we headed out to Sedona, AZ. What a beautiful place. Known as Red Rock country. The scenery is just amazing. Pictures galore of forests, plateaus, and canyons with the most amazing colors.
- It was National American Cowboy day, so there were all sorts of gunfights and lassoing demonstrations. I forget this is also Cowboy country. Apparently this is where all the renegade cowboys ended up after we drove them out of Texas.
- Sedona is a very spiritual place as well. All kinds of new age, tarot card, and spiritual enlightenment places. Caitlin called it “hippy dippy”.
- After a day of walking the town and shops, we stopped at the Chapel of the Holy Cross on our way back to Phoenix. Such an amazing little chapel. Probably doesn’t seat more than 100, but nonetheless, amazing location and views.
- For dinner we headed to a little area north of Scottsdale called Cave Creek. We met up with an old fraternity brother and his family for dinner at El Encanto. As a connoisseur of fine Mexican food, this place is the real deal.
- When we returned back to the house we were pleasantly surprised to find the AC had been fixed and house was nice an cool. kicking myself I didn’t call 2 days sooner. Oh well.
it’s hard to believe that our trip is half way over. we have definitely enjoyed ourselves will be back to this part of the country soon. the downstairs air conditioner froze up where the master bedroom is. it was a hot night. hopefully it will get fixed quickly.
day 5 highlights:
- as usual, the boys woke up hours before the girls. we made breakfast tacos. good start to the day.
- the boys headed out to the Grayhawk Golf Club. what a great time we had. it was hot, but golf in the desert is everything I imagined and more. hope to squeak in another round before we leave.
- while the boys were golfing, the girls headed out for the favorite sport – shopping – at the Fashion Square Mall.
- after golf and the mall, we headed back to the house for some time by the pool. anything to escape the mid-afternoon heat.
- for dinner we headed to Jasper’s Peak. it was happy hour with half priced appetizer’s. we sampled: Gulf Crab Dip, Shrimp Canape, Deviled Eggs, Shrimp and Grits, Beignets, and Honey Barbecue Wings.
- the kids “had” to get some Baskin-Robbins again after dinner.
- back at the house we huddled in the cool of the upstairs and watched Jim Gaffigan videos on You Tube before calling it a night.
this much i can tell you right now – renting a house is definitely the way to go. we have so much room and privacy, it’s worth every penny. not to mention that it is much cheaper than staying in a hotel. everybody wins.
Day 3 highlights:
- got the morning started early because of the time change. boys were up and ready at 6:00a. the girls – not so much.
- lazy morning at the house pool soaking up the sun.
- the boys played billiards – 8 ball, 9 ball, and worked on our trick shots.
- Wii games included – Wii Play and Wii sports. working our way to Wii Olympics.
- the boys fixed sandwiches for lunch. then more time at the pool
- in the afternoon we headed out to see Batman – The Dark Knight
- We followed that up with a little Chick-fil-a for dinner and over to the Cheesecake Factory for dessert.
- We capped of the evening with a little Phase 10 before calling it a night.